Top Ten Concerns for Autism Parents
Every now and then, I ask parents who visit my Facebook autism forum to tell me what their biggest and most consistent worry is.
Below is the list of top ten concerns in my unofficial poll. Click each for information, inspiration and collaboration:
- Worrying about the future. What will happen when I’m gone? The BIGGEST worry by far. Many stories on the topic HERE. Just scroll away.
- Handling Meltdowns/Aggression
- Best and most effective treatment?
- Feeding Problems/ Sleeping
- Helping my child make friends/Social Skills
- What about the siblings?
- Toilet Training
- Transition to adulthood/ Puberty /Dating
- Finding a time for myself/ finding helpers
- Training for teachers
What are your concerns? Let’s help each other!

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#2,3, and 6 are my biggest. We just went through medication changes and that caused a regression of sorts in behavior. My biggest worry is the behaviors getting so far out of hand before gaining control back…that, and whether or not he has a manic episode and has to be hospitalized.
I am scared to death that something is going to happen to my husband and me, then my son will be left alone. My family doesn’t even babysit for me. The thought of one of them having to take care of him the rest of his life, scares the living HELL out of me.
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